Buddha at Sunset

Buddha at Sunset

Thursday, May 24, 2012

And Then She Was Gone



She came into my life,
from out of nowhere one night,
Unexpected....
and my life suddenly had meaning.

She took me from my feet and into the clouds.

I flew along with her, sometimes barely holding onto the tips of her wings....
but I held on for almost 40 years.

Now she flies alone, in the sky...where she always belonged.

And I am alone again.

Joyce Ann Dudley Grawet
My best friend and the love of my life, my soul mate.
1951 - April 21, 2012

Tuesday, January 31, 2012

Then and Now!

 The photo on the left was taken in March of 1972.  The one the right; 2012.  One on the way to Hawaii for the very first time (I was there for two years; 1972 - 74), the other while visiting in 2011.

Not long after the first photo, I married Joyce ...who took the second photo last fall. 

At the age of 11, Joyce was told that she had Type One Diabetes; the worst one.  At that young age, she was told she might not live past the age of 30.  She was the wildest woman I'd every met, when I first met her in the fall of 1969, as an 18 year old, soon after my return from Viet Nam.  She figured she might as well go all out, since she wasn't going to make it anyway.  Whew!

After the birth of our only child, she began to focus on staying alive.....

Joyce was at the forefront of many medical and pharmaceutical developments that gave her the ability to continue to live a happy life.  The early days of diabetes was much more difficult to manage than now; with the intricate measuring devices today that can tell instantly when the blood sugar is going up or down. 

She was the recipient of a Kidney/Pancreas transplant in 1991; the 26th ever at the University of Washington Medical Center in Seattle. 

We have met another hurdle in the last few weeks....just today; it was confirmed that she has some kind of mass at the base of her skull and in the upper lobe of her left lung....maybe in her vertebrae also.  Next steps are a CT Scan of the chest and a biopsy.

Life is full of challenges.

May your challenges be met with a solid defense and an active offense!

Wednesday, December 14, 2011

Monday, November 14, 2011

Flow with the River!

It is important to understand that life will lead you where you need to go, if you let it.
Sometimes there are curves along the way.
Always you will find the right way forward by just flowing with the river!

The sky may be cloudy; but there's always a hole in the sky!

Seek your own 'hole in the sky'
Never accept the clouds attempt to make your day
all grey!
Always seek the positive side
and you will find your own hole in the sky!

Tuesday, October 25, 2011

Imagine - A world where every human being had what they need to enjoy a happy and full life!


Flow with the river!
It flows to the sea,
Flow with the river
It brings thee to me!

Friday, September 16, 2011

Friday, August 19, 2011

Imagine there was no more pain and suffering in the world!



Imagine

there was no suffering or pain in the world,

and all the people on earth could live in peace,

and everyone had all the food they needed, but not too much,

and there were no people without a home to live in,

and there was  no sickness,

Believe it can happen!





Saturday, May 7, 2011

Imagine......imagine whatever you wish today!

I wish for a nice dinner with my daughter and her mate that will include for the first time, her mate's mom and step-dad.

Friday, April 29, 2011

Imagine that all sick people in the entire world - were suddenly healed and ready to live life to its fullest once again!

What would you like me to imagine? 

Imagine you could change the world for the better - You can, you know!

See the photo on the right side of the open palm hands.....as it says..."Happiness is in the palm of your hands."

Imagine.....